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Prayers
and Thoughts for Reflection
There
are hands that help and comfort,
Time
has no divisions to mark its passage, there is never a thunder-storm
or blare of trumpets to announce the beginning of a new month or year.
Even when a new century begins it is only we mortals who ring bells
and fire off pistols. Of
all sound of all bells . . . most solemn and touching is the peal
which rings out the Old Year. Ring
out the old, ring in the new, Drop
the last year into the silent limbo of the past. Let it go, for it
was imperfect, and thank God that it can go. Hope
smiles on the threshold of the year to come, whispering that it will
be happier. Then
sing, young hearts that are full of cheer, New
Year's Day is every man's birthday. It
is always during a passing state of mind that we make lasting resolutions.
Year's
end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the
wisdom that experience can instill in us. New
Year's eve is like every other night; there is no pause in the march
of the universe, no breathless moment of silence among created things
that the passage of another twelve months may be noted; and yet no
man has quite the same thoughts this evening that come with the coming
of darkness on other nights. Each
age has deemed the new-born year Heavenly Father, in this time of New Year and New Beginnings, help me to hold on to what is good and to let go of that which you want me to. Please guide me throughout the coming year. Thank you for your love that sets me free to start anew. Help me to live one day at a time. Amen The tradition of the New Year’s Resolutions goes all the way back to 153 B.C. as Janus, a mythical king of early Rome was placed at the head of the calendar. With two faces, Janus could not only look back on past events, but forward to the future. Janus became the ancient symbol for resolutions and many Romans looked for forgiveness from their enemies. They also exchanged gifts before the beginning of each year. The New Year has not always begun on January 1, and it doesn’t begin on that date everywhere today. January 1 became the beginning of the New Year in 46 BC when Julius Caesar developed a calendar that would more accurately reflect the seasons than previous calendars had. It begins on that date only for cultures that use a 365 day solar calendar. The Romans named the first month of the year after Janus, the God of Beginnings and the Guardian of Doors and Entrances. He was always depicted with two faces, one on the front of his head and one on the back allowing him to look backward and forward at the same time. The Romans imagined Janus at midnight on December 31 looking back at the Old Year and forward to the New Year. The Romans began a tradition of exchanging gifts on New Year’s Eve by giving one another branches from sacred trees for good fortune. More common New Year’s Eve gifts were nuts or coins imprinted with Janus. During the Middle Ages, Christians changed New Year’s Day to December 25, the birth of Jesus. Later they changed it to March 25, a holiday called the Annunciation. In the sixteenth century, Pope Gregory XIII revised the Julian calendar, and the celebration of the New Year was returned to January 1. The Julian and Gregorian calendars are solar calendars. Some cultures have lunar calendars, less than 365 days because the months are based on the phases of the moon. The Chinese use a lunar calendar and their New Year begins at the time of the first full-moon (over the Far East) after the sun enters Aquarius – sometime between January 19 and February 21. Although the date for New Year’s Day is not the same in every culture, it is always a time for celebration and for customs to ensure good luck in the coming year. The
celebration of the New Year is the oldest of all holidays. It was
first observed in ancient Babylon about 4000 years ago. Around 2000
BC Babylonians celebrated the beginning of a New Year on what is now
March 23, although they themselves had no written calendar. Late March
is the time of the year that Spring begins and new crops are planted.
January 1 has no astronomical nor agricultural significance. In Babylonian,
the New Year celebration lasted for eleven days. Each day had its
own particular mode of celebration. The Romans continued to observe
the New Year on March 25. Their calendar was continually tampered
with by the various emperors so that the calendar soon became out
of synchronization with the sun. In 153 BC, in order to set the calendar
right, the Roman Senate declared January 1 to be the beginning of
the New Year. Julius Caesar, in 46 BC established what has come to
be known as the Julian Calendar which again established January 1
as the New Year. In order to synchronize the calendar with the sun,
Caesar allowed the previous year to last for 445 days. Good luck rituals from around the world believed to bring good fortune and prosperity in the coming year. Austria – The suckling pig is the symbol for good luck for the New Year. It is served on a table decorated with tiny edible pigs. Dessert often consists of green peppermint ice cream in the shape of a four-leaf clover. China – For the Chinese New Year, every front door is adorned with a fresh coat of red paint. Red is a symbol of good luck and happiness. Although the whole family prepares a feast for the New Year, all knives are put away for 24 hours to keep anyone from cutting themselves, which is thought to cut the family’s good luck for the coming year. The Chinese use a Chinese calendar which consists of both the Gregorian and lunar-solar systems, with the latter dividing a year into twelve months, each equally divided into thirty-nine and a half days. There is also a system which marks the years in a twelve-year cycle, naming each of them after an animal; Rat, Ox Tiger, Hare, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Sheep, Monkey, Rooster, Dog, and Boar. People born in a particular year are believed to share some of the personalities of that particular animal. England – The British place their fortunes for the coming year in the hands of their first guest. They believe the first visitor of each year should be make and bearing gifts. Traditional gifts are coal for the fire, a loaf of bread for the table and a drink for the master. For good luck, the guest should enter through the front door and leave through the back. Guests who are empty-handed or unwanted are not allowed to enter first. Greece – A special New Year’s bread is baked with a coin buried in the dough. The first slice is for the Christ child, the second for the father of the household and the third slice is for the house. If the third slice holds the coin, Spring will come early. Haiti – New Year’s Day in Haiti, is a sign of the year to come. Haitians wear new clothing and exchange gifts in the hope that it will bode well for the New Year. Japan – The Japanese decorate their homes in tribute to lucky gods. One tradition, kadomatsu, consists of a pine branch symbolizing longevity, a bamboo stalk symbolizes prosperity and a plum blossom shows nobility. Norway – Norwegians make rice pudding at the New Year and hide one whole almond in it. Guaranteed wealth comes to the person whose serving holds the lucky almond. Peru – Peruvian’s eat 12 grapes at the turn of the year like the Spanish. But a 13th grape must be eaten to assure good luck. Sicily – Sicilian tradition says good luck will come to those who eat lasagna on New Year’s Day. Dining on macaroni or any other noodle will bring bad luck. Spain – When the clock strikes midnight, the Spanish eat 12 grapes, one with every toll to bring good luck for the 12 months ahead. United States – The kiss shared at the stroke of midnight in the United States is derived from masked balls that have been common throughout history. As tradition has it, the masks symbolize evil spirits from the old year and the kiss is the purification into the New Year. The song, ‘Auld Lang Syne’ is sung at the stroke of midnight in almost every English speaking country in the world to bring in the New Year. In spite of the popularity of the song, it has been described as the song nobody knows. The title means ‘old long ago’ or ‘the good old days’. The song was written by Robert Burns in 1741, but not published until 1796 after his death. Wales
– At the first toll of midnight, the back door is opened and
then shut to release the old year and lock out all of its bad luck.
At the twelfth stroke of the clock, the front door is opened and the
New Year is welcomed with all of its luck. In
the old McGuffey’s Reader is a story about the clock that had
been running for a long, long time on the mantelpiece. One day the
clock began to think about how many times during the year ahead it
would have to tick. It counted up the seconds – 31,536,000 in
the year – and the old clock just got to tired and said, “I
can’t do it,” and stopped right there. When somebody reminded
the clock that it did not have to tick the 31,536,000 seconds all
at one time, but rather one by one, it began to run again and everything
was all right. Spiritual
maturity begins when we realize that we are God’s guests in
this world. We are not householders, but pilgrims; not landlords,
but tenants; not owners, but guests. We
live on a moving line between past and future. That line is our lifeline. I've
never seen my future and I don't intend to start now. . . . something
will happen. That's about as far as I get with philosophy. There's
no point mapping out next year. Fate is much more magical. I
am totally, eternally secure in Jesus Christ. It
is difficult not to believe that the next year will be better than
the old one! ... And this illusion is not wrong. Future is always
good, no matter what happens. It will always give us what we need
and what we want in secret. It will always bless us with right gifts.
Thus in a deeper sense our belief in the New Year cannot deceive us.
Let this New Year be the beginning of a new life in each of us wherein
“old things are passed away.” And
this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask anything
according to his will, he heareth us. My
message has been very simple. To live well we must have a faith fit
to live by, a self fit to live with, and a work fit to live for –
something to which we can give ourselves and thus get ourselves off
our hands. We cannot tell what may happen to us in the strange medley
of life. But we can decide what happens in us – how we can take
it, what we do with it – and that is what really counts in the
end. How to take the raw stuff of life and make it a thing of worth
and beauty – that is the test of living. Life is an adventure
of faith, if we are to be victors over it, not victims of it. Faith
in the God above us, faith in the little infinite soul within us,
faith in life and in our fellow souls – without faith, the plus
quality, we cannot really live. Thank you for the everyday gifts I so often take for granted. Remind me to open my eyes and see your divine touch in all things around me. Amen Do
not look forward to the changes and chances of this life in fear;
rather look to them with full hope that, as they arise, God, whose
you are, will deliver you out of them. He is your keeper. He has kept
you hitherto. Do you but hold fast to his dear hand, and he will lead
you safely through all things; and, when you cannot stand, he will
bear you in his arms. Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow.
Our Father will either shield you from suffering, or he will give
you strength to bear it. Every
trouble is an opportunity to win the grace of strength. Whatever else
trouble is in the world for, it is here for this good purpose –
to develop strength. For a trouble is a moral and spiritual task.
It is something which is hard to do. And it is the spiritual world
as in the physical, strength is increased by encounter with the difficult.
A world without any trouble in it would be, to people of our kind,
a place of spiritual enervation and moral laziness. Fortunately, every
day is crowded with care. Every day to every one of us brings its
questions, its worries and its tasks, brings its sufficiency of trouble.
Thus we get our daily spiritual exercise. Every day we are blessed
with new opportunities for the development of strength of soul. God
broke the years to hours and days, O Lord, Guide me to hear your whispers and to live each day a new one for you. Help me to remember that if I get the little things right, the big things will take care of themselves. Open the door of my heart. Make me a stone in your temple of love. Amen One
of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of
us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose
garden over the horizon – instead of enjoying the roses that
are blooming outside our windows today. I
feel that you are justified in looking into the future with true assurance,
because you have a mode of living in which we find the joy of life
and the joy of work harmoniously combined. Added to this is the spirit
of ambition which pervades your very being, and seems to make the
day's work like a happy child at play. I
think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the year's. The
kingdom of God is within you. Our
lives are made up of a million moments spent in a million different
ways. Always
keep your eyes open for the little task, because it is the little
task that is important to Jesus Christ. The future of the Kingdom
of God does not depend on the enthusiasm of this or that powerful
person; those great ones are necessary too, but it is equally necessary
to have a great number of little people who will do a little thing
in the service of Christ. Just
for today, I will try to live through this day only, and not
tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do something for twelve
hours that would appall me if I felt that I had to keep it up for
a lifetime. O Lord, in this New Year with new resolutions, help me to make a fresh new year living one day at a time, not worrying about the yesterdays or the tomorrows. Help me to see what I can accomplish, if I only put my trust in you. Help me to take time for myself, to take time for others, and most of all, to take time for you before I begin my day. Please use me to lift up others even as You have sent others to lift me in my times of need. Amen Just
for today. . . I
bring thee now, O God, the parcel of a completed day. For I have wrapped
it in my thoughts, tied it with my acts, and stored it in the purposes
for which I live. One
resolution I have made, and try always to keep, is this: To rise above
the little things. Every
man should be born again on the first day of January. Start with a
fresh page. Take up one hole more in the buckle if necessary, or let
down one, according to circumstances; but on the first of January
let every man gird himself once more, with his face to the front,
and take no interest in the things that were and are past. To
every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the
heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and
a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill, and a time
to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; A time to weep,
and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance. The
object of a new year is not that we should have a new year. It is
that we should have a new soul. Glory
to God in highest heaven, This
is a time for reflection as well as celebration.
Take twelve fine, full-grown months; see that these are thoroughly
free from old memories of bitterness, rancor and hate, cleanse them
completely from every clinging spite; pick off all specks of pettiness
and littleness; in short, see that these months are freed from all
the past—have them fresh and clean as when they first came from
the great storehouse of Time. Cut these months into thirty or thirty-one
equal parts. Do not attempt to make up the whole batch at one time
(so many persons spoil the entire lot this way) but prepare one day
at a time. Another
fresh new year is here … Dear
Lord, please give me… The
world is a looking-glass, and gives back to every man the reflection
of his own face. Frown at it, and it in turn will look sourly at you;
laugh at it, and with it, and it is a jolly, kind companion. Put
your life into your prayer, and let it be the most real and most immediate
business of your life. Come,
Holy Spirit, I
am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says
to you. Do not fear; I will help you. Heavenly
Father, for this coming year Be
at war with your vices; at peace with your neighbors, and let every
new year find you a better man. If
you can’t be a pine on the top of the hill, If
you can’t be a bush, be a bit of the grass, We
can’t all be captains, we’ve got to be crew, If
you can’t be a highway, then just be a trail, Do
not attempt to make-up the whole batch at one time for it works best
if you work on just one day at a time: Into each day put: Share
your gifts and talents listen with your heart. Pick
a bouquet of flowers show someone that you care, Hold
on to your courage you may need it down the road, If
you practice all these things no matter where you roam, To
leave the old with a burst of song, May
God make your year a happy one! I
enjoy life. Especially on mornings when I begin to carry out a new
and firm resolution. O Lord, in this New Year with new resolutions, I thank you for the wonderful gift that You have provided in giving me this day. Direct my steps. No matter what happens today, I trust you to see me through. Open the door of my heart and help me to be a beacon of light, hope and encouragement. Amen The
Old Year has gone. Let the dead past bury its own dead. The New Year
has taken possession of the clock of time. All hail the duties and
possibilities of the coming twelve months! There
is no moment like the present. The man who will not execute his resolutions
when they are fresh upon him can have no hope from them afterwards:
they will be dissipated, lost, and perish in the hurry and scurry
of the world, or sunk in the slough of indolence. With
bounteous cheer, conclude the year. At
any age it does us no harm to look over our past shortcomings and
plan to improve our characters and actions in the coming year. See
first that the design is wise and just; that ascertained, pursue it
resolutely. I
resolve to speak ill of no man whatever, not even in a matter of truth;
but rather by some means excuse the faults I hear charged upon others,
and upon proper occasions speak all the good I know of everybody.
Blessed
is the servant who loves his brother as much when he is sick and useless
as when he is well and can be of service to him. And blessed is he
who loves his brother as well when he is afar off as when he is by
his side, and who would say nothing behind his back he might not,
in love, say before his face. Resolve
to edge in a little reading every day, if it is but a single sentence.
If you gain fifteen minutes a day, it will make itself felt at the
end of the year. We
can all pray. We all should pray. We should ask the fulfillment of
God’s will. We should ask for courage, wisdom, for the quietness
of soul which comes alone to them who place their lives in His hands. Finish
every day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some
blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as
you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with
too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day
is all that is good and fair. It is too dear, with its hopes and invitations,
to waste a moment on yesterdays. Look
not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve
the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without
fear, and with a manly heart. For
last year's words belong to last year's language A
happy New Year! Grant that I Every
new year people make resolutions to change aspects of themselves they
believe are negative. The majority of people revert back to how they
were before and feel like failures. This year I challenge you to a
new resolution. I challenge you to just be yourself. We
spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up
a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year,
to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives
. . ., not looking for flaws, but for potential. No
one ever regarded the First of January with indifference. It is that
from which all date their time, and count upon what is left. It is
the nativity of our common Adam. We
will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words
on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter
is New Year's Day.” Lord,
hold our troops in your loving hands. You
go no where by accident.
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